Everyone struggles with achieving a home yoga practice consistently and everyone beats themselves up about not achieving it, at some point.
Whether you are trying to do this for the first time, or if you previously had a regular home practice and can’t understand why it’s so difficult to re-establish it, we all love making ourselves our own judge, jury and executioner.
(Surely, the phrase should put the jury first? I’ve always wondered about that.)
Here are some practical ways recommended by teachers way more experienced than me – I hope some of them help:
Plan it. The boring task of simply blocking out a period of
time on a day and time is the first step in making sure practice happens. Write
your practice times in your diaries and hold yourself to them, just as you
would a professional appointment or a lunch date with a friend.
Write down your Why-Power. Decide why you want to do this (and if you can’t
think of a good enough reason to do a home yoga practice just don’t do it.) Write
down the benefits somewhere to remind yourself of why it’s better for you to do
it than avoid it. Phone alerts, post-it notes, and text messages to yourself
are all good!
Start small. Set yourself up for success by making your practice
plan highly realistic and utterly doable for you given everything else you’ve
got going on in your life. Remember, you can always do more. Be willing to do
less if needed too; even 15 minutes is better than nothing!
Consistent doesn’t mean every day. Think ‘regular’ – you can always add if you want to
make practice more regular.
Have your equipment out and visible. Leaving the mat in a place you will always
see it makes it more likely that you’ll use it.
Practice as early in the day as you
can. Although everyone’s body clock and home
commitments are different, it is generally accepted that getting your
practice in before anything else can get in the way not only makes it more
likely for your practice to happen, it also allows you to enjoy the benefits of
your practice all day long.
Welcome yourself to practice with
complete and utter self-acceptance.
Start by acknowledging that you are exactly where you are. Take a moment to sit
before you begin or while you are rolling your mat out, to consciously acknowledge
yourself with appreciation for coming to your mat. Welcome yourself, as you
are, to your practice. No judgment or self-criticism allowed. If either of
those unwanted guests arrive, once you notice them, release them with your
breath and come back to the feeling of acceptance and allowing.
Start with something you love that
feels great in your body. It might simply be
lying down on your back with your knees bent into your chest and rolling
around. It might be stretching your legs up the nearest wall for a few minutes.
A few rolls of your shoulders or your wrists. Anything you remember or anything
you love to do is a great place to start.
Observe the effects of your practice. Have a small notebook near you, and at the end of
practice take a couple of minutes to write down how you feel, the effects of
your practice, any insights, or questions. Or, simply notice and comment on the
effects of your practice inwardly at the end of practice.
Thank yourself for showing up. Whatever your practice was like, even when it falls
short of your expectations, be grateful that you did it. Some simple ways to do
this are by bringing your hands together in the centre of your chest, bowing
your head toward your heart, or spending a moment of conscious breathing and
self-connection as you conclude your practice for the day. Inwardly expressing
appreciation to yourself for your efforts makes it easier for you to come back
next time.
Enjoy!
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